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The Truth About Business Time
God created sex. It’s his idea.
Traditionally, churches have either been silent about sex or painted it in a bad light. But the truth is it’s really something wonderful that God’s given us. Think about it, God didn’t have to make sex feel good. He could have set up procreation without pleasure, but that’s not the kind of God we have.
Why is sex such a big deal?
Sex becomes an issue the same way everything in life becomes an issue. When we turn a good thing into an ultimate thing (worship) which then makes it a bad thing. We do this with sex, people, stuff, you name it. Worship Christ; enjoy sex.
The fact of the matter is this: God created sex, made it good, and we need to embrace his gift to us and reject any notion that it’s somehow dirty.
Religion may say sex is dirty, but God says it’s good. God is always better than religion.
How cool is it that included in the very Word of God is a book of beautiful, erotic poetry? The entire book of Song of Solomon is this amazing picture of a newly married couple enjoying their sexuality and intimacy with one another. In it you’ll find everything from strip teases, to foreplay, to oral sex, to lovemaking- all to celebrate their oneness.
God gives us freedom to be passionate lovers, to do all kinds of kinky stuff, to be free with our body, while always seeking oneness in marriage.
It all goes back to the original design.
Man and Wife…Becoming One Flesh…Naked and Unashamed
Sex in marriage is the closest thing to naked and unashamed in Garden that we will experience in this lifetime.
If you’re married, chances are your sex life is too infrequent. Even in our sex-crazed culture, it’s an issue. Isn’t interesting that the enemy will do everything he can to get you to have sex before you married and then once you’re married, do everything he can to keep you from having sex. That should tell us something. Yes, we’re supposed to wait until we’re married. But once we’re married, we make up for lost time.
Married people are to have lots and lots of sex. In fact, the only exception is a mutual exception so we can pray (spend some time alone with God).
So if you’re married, let me ask you a question: What’s keeping you from having frequent business time?
Too busy? Schedule a date night, enjoy spontaneous quickies but plan for some extended time
Lack energy? Work out and/or just do it anyway.
Kids? Set boundaries (bedtimes), use creativity (afternoon delights).
Fighting? Communicate. Reconcile. Make up sex is the best!
Stress? Finances (budget, spend less, make more), Work (change jobs if necessary)
Health? Do what you can to take care of one another
If you commit to having more frequent encounters, you will find that it actually reduces stress, decreases fighting and tension, strengthens your bond, and can even be a pretty fun workout. Just make sure you stretch out first so you don’t pull a hamstring. 
The best sex is when each partner is seeking to fulfill the others sexual needs with selfless abandon. It’s the most amazing masterpiece in all of creation. We have freedom in our marriages to use our imaginations. To experiment and try new things.
Again, it all goes back to the original design.
Man and Wife…Becoming One Flesh…Naked and Unashamed
That’s the truth about Business Time.
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Dude, love this post. You’re right on my man. The title caught my attention right away…
“It’s business, it’s business time. You know when I’m down to just my socks what time it is…”
This could be my favorite blog title ever. (the blog itself was good as well)
And, in honor of Brad, I will continue song quotes.
“Your wearing that old baggy t-shirt you got from your old work. And it’s never looked better on you.”
Thanks guys. I’ll continue the song…
“Recycling isn’t part of the foreplay but it is still very important…”