Let me keep it real today. My heart is heavy.
Very good friends of ours just lost their baby. This is a tragedy that hurts to the core. And as friends, it rocks us too. I want so badly to take the pain away and its all I can do to pray and be there.
In visiting with my buddy I wanted to give him an answer to the “why” question that lingers in his soul. But I don’t have the answer. Perhaps in time or maybe its a question for Heaven. I don’t know why- but I do know Who.
You see, I believe what Jeremiah 29:11 says,
“‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’.”
This isn’t just some verse you tack onto graduation cards. It’s God’s declaration that he’s sovereign and has a destiny for our lives. Even when it makes no sense to us. This verse is true in good times and in bad. This baby boy passed away for a purpose. His brief life had meaning and was planned long before he was a twinkle in his parents’ eyes.
The evil one likes to slip the lie in our head that suffering happens because of something we did or didn’t do. The truth is my friends didn’t lose their child because of anything other than God’s purposes. God was not punishing them. But at the same time, God did allow this. When heartache rolls we should acknowledge the hurt, pain, and anger. Jesus desires an honest, authentic relationship with us. It’s okay to tell Him you’re angry with him. Trust him enough to bear your heart. He’s the Lord- He can take it.
Trusting God is easy when the volume of our life is at a comfortable level. But trust is hard when our lives are “cranked to eleven” and He takes away someone we love- especially a child.
This experience has made me pause to ask questions. “Do I trust God with my children?” “If He took them away from me would I trust that His will was just and good even though it hurts so bad?” It’s easy to say but so hard to do.
Like most of you, I’ve gone through lots of difficult times. Peace is found believing that the pain and suffering in life is not meaningless, is not by accident, and is not beyond the hand of God. He’s in control. He loves us. He never says, “Oops.”
This is the intersection of faith and reality. Do we trust Him?
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